Men have always wondered why, if a girl says “no,” this does not always mean exactly “no”. Many aphorisms and anecdotes have been invented on this topic. It's just that men have a different mindset than women.
The mindset of the girls is sublime and uncertain. In addition to specifics, they also have such concepts as “I don’t know,” “maybe,” “rather yes than no,” and others. That is why a girl cannot always determine the side in which she needs to tilt her answer. A definite conclusion about what the lady had in mind in all situations cannot be made, each answer depends on the specific case.
A common example of a negative answer
Like the entire animal world, a person obeys a number of instincts, which, throughout his life, suggest what to do. Sometimes a girl refuses only for the man to show great persistence. In the entire animal kingdom, the female, at the beginning of courtship, runs away from the male, but the male, in turn, has no choice but to run after the female. Show her your agility, agility and strength.
People have the same instinct. The girl must understand that this or that man is courageous, courageous and self-confident. In addition, this behavior leads to even greater emotional feeling and stronger attachment. These rejections help a woman understand a man.
Situational concept of negative response
Also, such an answer may not mean a specific "no", but something like "not now" or "not here." Such denial can be heard in the event that a girl likes a guy, they walk and kiss, but the guy requires something more. The girl herself does not mind either, but, for example, she does not like the place. Then refusal will have just such a meaning.
The subjective concept of a negative response
Another example can be considered. Perhaps the girl does not like the situation or the time period, but the guy himself. In this case, neither the romantic setting nor the expectation of the passage of time will help. In such a situation, in order for "no" to turn into "yes", you need to work. It is necessary to delicately find out from the girl what kind of men she likes, what character, habits and so on should be. Just try to change yourself in her eyes.
In the mysterious female soul, the word “no” does not have such a specific meaning as in the male one. Therefore, it, of course, can mean in a number of cases and "yes", and many more different options. To understand the answer more specifically, you need not listen to what the woman says, but look at how she says it, because in addition to speech, there is also body language, which is the most vivid demonstration of feelings. And if, pronouncing a word, a girl means a completely different meaning, only body and gesture language can tell you how to act in a given situation.
