There is no universal answer to the question of how to find personal happiness, since this concept is very individual. What is happiness for one person has no value for another. But for the most part, people want to find a close and dear person for whom both heart and soul will open!
Instructions
Step 1
Look for your happiness, do not expect that someone will bring it to you on a silver platter. Life is difficult to squeeze into any definite framework, and what seemed to you a happy marriage can turn into ruins in one second because of one glance or a fleeting smile of a stranger. then this is the first sign that you have not found personal happiness! An image that looms vaguely on the horizon and interferes with living in peace, is unsteady and vague, try to give it shape and colors.
Step 2
You need to collect happiness bit by bit, scrupulously - what heroes of the books you like and why, what public people you fall in love with, even the music that you like plays a role. Maybe people with different characters are attracted to each other, but something in common, some favorite things must be the same. Purely intuitively, a person chooses a partner with a similar style of clothing, because it is in the manner of dressing without words that the attitude is expressed to the world, life and yourself.
Step 3
Listen to the stories of colleagues, friends and acquaintances. Where did they find their personal happiness, can any of these options work for you? Analyze how you feel about couples you consider happy. What do you think makes them so? It is really important to understand what you consider to be harmony, then it will be easier for you to determine what kind of person you personally need.
Step 4
Slightly "tied" in a company to acquaintances or friends, whose personal happiness you envy with "white" envy. A person truly envies someone who is similar to him, but has something special that this person does not have. Therefore, it is real to seek your happiness among people close to you. It is possible that in this company there are lonely friends or girlfriends, among whom you will find the only person you have been waiting for all your life.
Step 5
Do not hesitate - you will recognize it immediately! Where have these lovely wrinkles in the corners of the eyes, this special bend of the upper lip hid so far, and why do you so want to bury your nose in this dimple above the collarbone? Learned?! This is your personal happiness, do not lose it. Open up to love and tenderness, do not pretend to be who you are not, appreciate every moment spent together. Having found your happiness, keep it!
