Mom is a dear person. But not always even the closest relatives become friends. It so happens that between children and parents there are irreconcilable differences due to opposing views of the world.
What to do if it is difficult to communicate with mom? Think about when the cooling of the relationship happened, what contributed to this. Perhaps everything comes from childhood. Some parents, due to their temperament and character, are too cold with children, they are more busy with their problems. Kids in the family are perceived as dokuka, mothers want to quickly raise them and get rid of unnecessary responsibilities. In such families, one should not expect warmth from parents even in adulthood. Mothers understand that they made a mistake only when they became old and weak. They themselves need support and begin to try to return the love of their children. If this is your situation, you should know that you have the right to refuse your mother, as she once did. But do you need it? Perhaps mom realized her mistakes, repented and now really needs you. Talk to her frankly. Only a confidential conversation will put all the points in a relationship.
There are also opposite situations. It is difficult to communicate with mothers because of their love for children, sweeping away everything in its path. Such parents get their adored child overprotective, try to control every step even in adulthood, get into family relationships of adult children, etc. It is very difficult to come to terms with this behavior of the mother, and it is not necessary. To begin with, explain to her that you are an independent adult, give examples of how you are respected at work, how appreciated in the family. For mothers inclined to overprotection, it is very important what others think of her "baby". Therefore, referring to older comrades and leaders, prove to her that you can be trusted, and you are already able to take responsibility for your actions. If the conversation did not help, limit communication with your mother. Ask her to text messages and not call when she wants to say something. If it does not help, do not answer calls, only messages. Over time, mom will realize that you are quite capable of doing without her, and will find herself a new hobby. But don't forget your mom at all. Be sure to take an interest in her business and health. Just do it in your free time from work and when you are in the mood to communicate with loved ones. Then peace and quiet will come in relations with parents.
Try not to conflict with your mom, no matter how difficult it may be. Do not make scandals, settle everything through negotiations. Behave like an adult. Then the parents will treat you with respect, trust and consult with you.