First love brings joy, anxiety, and pain. I would like to share my happiness with all my friends. They will understand - they will be glad for you and may envy you … But perhaps the most difficult thing is to tell my mother about it. Suddenly she will get angry, suddenly forbid meeting.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about why your mom might be against your friend. Perhaps she is afraid that your studies will suffer. Try not to give grounds for such concerns: show your mom good grades and diligence in her studies. Actually, behave in such a way that your mother has no reason to say: "This guy influences you badly."
Step 2
If you suspect your mom might not like your boy's behavior, think maybe she's right. Mom has dealt with boys much more and understands them better. Perhaps she will notice what you did not notice. In addition, you may need the advice of a smart, loving older friend in a difficult situation.
Step 3
To make it easier for you to talk to your mom about your friend, start from afar. Ask her about her youth, what she was fond of, with whom she was friends. Gradually turn the conversation to boys: did she meet with them before your dad, what they were, how her parents reacted …
Step 4
If your mom is willing to share her memories of her first love, you can tell her that a boy is caring for you and you like him too. Ask permission to invite him over.
Step 5
If she makes it clear that it's too early for you to think about such things, you can imagine your friend as a school friend with whom you do homework. It's best for your mom to know your friends. If the boy makes a good impression on your parents, it will be easier later to announce that you are going to the cinema or to the disco together.
Step 6
Perhaps mom is afraid of the consequences of your relationship, considers you too frivolous and naive. Try to prove that you are a serious, responsible person who can be trusted. Take on some of the household chores and do them accurately and accurately.
Step 7
Your friend should also try to make a good impression on your family. If you are really dear to him, he will do so. Gently let him know what your mom might like or dislike so that he avoids mistakes.
