Sleepless nights in anxiety and uncertainty are behind: after examination and analysis, the gynecologist informed you that you are pregnant. Now everything in your life will change. How to inform mom about this fact? After all, the first is your child or the third - the information will still be unexpected. There are several social statuses of the expectant mother, in which the mother should submit this information in different ways.
Instructions
Step 1
The girl is married and expecting her first child
Invite your mother to your house for Sunday lunch or just for a visit in the evening, and in this cozy home environment, together with your husband, let you know that you will soon have a baby. Save up drops of volocardine or some other sedative just in case. After all, not every mother, although she understands the married situation of her daughter, fully reports that her girl has already grown to the point where she herself will become a mother.
Step 2
If a couple lives far from their parents and it will not work to invite their mother to visit her to inform her about a joyful event (another region, city or state), then it is quite possible to use the possibilities of the Internet. By communicating in Skype or using other programs in which you can see the interlocutor, joyfully and gently inform your mother that she will soon become a grandmother. It is important to have eye contact with such a conversation, since this is an additional factor in the mother's positive reaction, because she sees that her daughter is happy and has decided to keep the baby. And what else do parents need if not the happiness of their child?
Step 3
If the first two methods are impossible, just send your mom a detailed, calm letter with a message about a happy event - your pregnancy.
Step 4
You can use the telegraph service and send a telegram to the future grandmother. Just pre-calculate the situation down to the smallest details, because your sudden pregnancy can greatly affect your mother's health, both positively and negatively.
Step 5
If the girl is not married, but the future father of the child is going to connect his life with her, then before informing the mother about pregnancy, it is worth submitting an application to the registry office (this will greatly delight the mother and make her understand that her daughter will have support and protection in the form of the future spouse).
Step 6
If registering a relationship is not included in the couple's immediate plans, just be with the future father when informing your mother about pregnancy. By doing this you will make it clear that the baby's dad will not be an "unknown soldier", but this very specific young man. And this will add "bonuses" to the guy in the eyes of your mother. Next, you will understand the situation.
Step 7
In the event that the pregnancy is unplanned and the father of the unborn child is unknown or is not going to meet with you even in order to see you again, as well as to show himself-beloved woman who will become the grandmother of his child, do not despair. Whatever your decision (to keep the baby or terminate the pregnancy), calmly and without hysterics, talk about it with your mother. To do this, invite her to your home (if you are living separately) or, on a suitable evening in a common house, tell her about your desire to talk frankly, warning that you want to discuss with her some very important news for both of you. Ask your mom to be calm about everything you are going to say to her - this will set her in the appropriate mood and will make it clear the extent of the seriousness of your intentions.
Step 8
Don't be afraid to tell your mom about your pregnancy even if you are a minor. Only it should be done as early as possible, because complications or the threat of termination of pregnancy may occur. And mom is a person who loves you loyally and selflessly and will always help you, because you need the support of a loved one. With your chosen one or one, seriously talk to your mother, let her understand how responsibly you approach this situation and that you already feel like an adult responsible for the life of an unborn baby.
