The birth of a child, especially if he is the first, is an important event in the family. But there are different situations, and in each of them you need to present this news in a special way. If you have been trying to get pregnant for a long time, your husband will be very happy with the baby. But if this happened by accident, and the man did not want a child, you need to say carefully about pregnancy.
Instructions
Step 1
Do another test to be sure you are pregnant. Sometimes tests show false positives, and then the couple will be disappointed. Just do one more check just in case, and if the information is confirmed, you can prepare for the conversation.
Step 2
With a long-awaited pregnancy, there is no need to prepare your husband for this news. But it is not worthwhile to report this on the phone on a daily basis. In the bustle of work, he will not be able to fully realize your happiness. And with a personal conversation, he will be able to hug and kiss you, thereby sharing the joyful moment.
Step 3
You can report pregnancy at dinner, in plain text without games and hints. Or you can take original steps and present this news in an unusual way. There are a huge number of options for how to tell your husband about pregnancy in an original way, choose the one that suits your situation.
Step 4
But not all women are sure of their husband's reaction. If you become pregnant by accident or your spouse doesn't want to have children, you need to set the stage for a conversation. First, you can discuss the reasons why he does not want a child. It is possible that his fears and doubts were left behind, and now he will take this news with joy.
Step 5
After the preparatory conversation, you can get to the point. Offer to sit down and talk about pregnancy. Make it clear right away that you did not intend to become pregnant, and you are in the same surprise.
Step 6
Don't be discouraged if your husband's first reaction is unpleasant. He is shocked by what he heard, and may not fully understand what is happening. Give him time to calm down, come to his senses, and then continue the conversation and talk about the future.
Step 7
If the husband is categorically against children, you need to prepare in advance. Consider possible options for the development of the conversation, come up with answers to his questions. If you know why he does not want a child, you can prepare a counterargument. For example, a man thinks that children are too expensive, and you collect information about the prices of children's things and an advertisement for donations of some of them. Say that your relatives will help with finances, and you yourself will earn extra money in the evenings. Find the right words to convince the man.
Step 8
Some men who do not want to have children, in such a situation, insist on abortion. But only you can make the final decision, and think carefully first. If you want a baby, do not follow the lead of a man. With such different attitudes towards life, you will not be able to create a happy marriage. And you, among other things, will suffer from remorse because of the perfect deed. Sometimes it is better to divorce such a person and raise the baby on your own.
