In the life of any person, sooner or later, a romantic relationship happens. And this period does not always end with a “happy ending”. People break up, often leaving behind heartache. How to forget a loved one? Is it possible if you see him every day?
Love is a wonderful feeling, it is the basis of the foundations. Without her, life just doesn't make sense. According to statistics, most people, before they found their other half and created a strong reliable family, repeatedly fell in love with someone else. Relationships often end in breakup at the initiative of one of the partners. There is also "unrequited love", when lofty feelings prevailed over only one person, and the second does not experience reciprocity.
The answer is obvious - no, it's just not human nature. Forgetting a person who somehow influenced your life, caused emotions, feelings, etc., most likely will not work. Of course, if these are really strong feelings, and not a fleeting sympathy. There is also an opinion that true love is eternal, and it is impossible to stop loving a person completely, but you can reduce and over time completely remove that mental pain that torments you now.
To do this, try listening to the following guidelines:
1. Put an end to this story. Life is not over, and you need to move on, no matter how painful it is now. Cry, scream, throw out everything that has accumulated inside you. But don't make it a daily ritual, try to do it in one go. Remember - there are many obstacles on the way to real happiness. It's just that this is not your person, try to forgive him, if you have something and let him go. Until you let go of the person, do not move away from him, you will not be able to move on normally.
2. Don't get discouraged and depressed. Take care of yourself - self-development is the best way to forget and be distracted. You can go to the gym, learn a new profession, make new acquaintances. Moreover, when you meet “your” person on your way, it is better to look not a dull, abandoned creature, but a beautiful, well-groomed and intelligent girl (guy).
3. Try to limit communication with the object of your sympathy. Do not call, write, do not look for meetings, and if they are inevitable - behave aloof. Do not single out this person. He is the past for you. If it doesn't work, go back to point 1.
And remember - even now you are heartbroken and nothing can be worse, but years will pass, and you will smile, remembering this situation. Everything that is happening now is an experience. The main thing is never to lose your self-esteem. Then people who are worthy of you and your love will be drawn to you.
