Why do some people enjoy dizzying success while others remain in the shadows? What are the secrets of the former and the mistakes of the latter? You do not need to have special talents to interest and charm. The qualities that make a person attractive in the eyes of other people can be developed by almost everyone.
Instructions
Step 1
Success with others, and with the opposite sex in particular, depends little on beauty, manner of dress, material wealth, and the like. The first impression a person makes is, of course, very important, but only at the very beginning of an acquaintance. Further, other parties already come into force.
Step 2
The first secret of people who enjoy success with the public lies in their energy. You need to have some kind of zest, a special inner attitude, to be confident in your success and your irresistibility. This conviction can be achieved through positive attitudes repeated day in and day out. People around you are unlikely to be able to notice you if you yourself are not sure that you really deserve it.
Step 3
A smile and a look are no less powerful. Think of flirting and communication as a game. Do not strain yourself trying to charm the person you like, try to play, because in the game it is always much easier to act. It is easy to see that the audience's favorites often smile and look at other people with interest. These signals can show that you are open, friendly, and willing to communicate.
Step 4
And the most important secret is that you, so charming and charming, your attention and your love to other people will still need to be earned. Do not try to please someone by trying to appear better, do the opposite. Do not fight for the attention and approval of the other person - let him try to earn your smile and this will be a gift for him.
Step 5
Remain yourself in all situations. Do not change your interests by adapting to the other. Of course, this does not mean at all that you do not need to make compromises and concessions, but try not to act to your detriment, so as not to scold yourself later and not blame the other person.
