People's relationships sometimes develop at a rapid pace. Friendship can develop into true love over time. But the possibility of the reverse process causes a lot of controversy.
Instructions
Step 1
Some people are sure that true love after parting may well end in strong friendship, and this opinion has many reasons. The fact is that, meeting with someone for a sufficiently long time, you will learn all the habits of a person, you, like no one else, understand his interests, worldview and are familiar with all his life problems. If your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend is in a difficult situation, you can always help that person with advice. Most often, when any difficulties arise, people turn to their former soulmates for help.
Step 2
The second reason former lovers can be friends is the similarity of interests. During your relationship, you probably developed common hobbies and hobbies that you can do together even after breaking up. Once upon a time, you had fun together, so breaking up a relationship is not at all a reason for a complete cessation of communication.
Step 3
The third reason for friendship between former soul mates lies in affection for each other. You are just used to the fact that this person is always by your side. Yes, perhaps he will not become a companion in your life and does not suit you as a woman or a man, but he is a good man. Therefore, it is difficult for you to stop communicating with him after breaking up, and you prefer sincere and loyal friendship.
Step 4
However, not all people agree with the possibility of friendship after a breakup. They consider this impossible for the reason that parting most often becomes the initiative of one person, so it will be too difficult for another to be around and just communicate in a friendly way. In addition, after separation, one of the former second halves begins to build new relationships, which also causes a lot of pain to the other. Also, maintaining a friendly relationship with your former lover or beloved, you risk at any moment succumbing to momentary weakness and again imbued with the desire not only spiritual, but also physical intimacy. Of course, your desire can be fulfilled and, most likely, this will lead to your reconciliation and the restoration of the couple, but the problems from the past have not disappeared anywhere. You still remain the same person, with your own shortcomings that once did not suit your beloved or beloved. Therefore, the relationship will initially be doomed to failure with all the ensuing consequences that are unlikely to please you.
