According to research, there are five love languages, that is, five ways to express your love for your chosen one.
The first language of love is time. When a person loves someone (or something), he devotes all his free time to it.
The second is gifts. The lover seeks to please his chosen one with pleasant surprises, cute trinkets or expensive purchases.
The third is words of admiration, or simply compliments.
The fourth is expressed in help and care.
The fifth love language is touch.
Everything seems to be simple and clear. Why, then, do resentments and misunderstandings arise between two people who love each other? Why do people who got married for love and love each other decide to leave?
Usually, when lovers have just met each other, at the very beginning of a relationship, they use all five languages of love: they care, spend a lot of time together, give compliments, give gifts, touch each other.
Further, a joint life, everyday life, worries begin, children appear and now each spouse begins to show his love in the way it was customary in his family, with his parents. And the point here is not in laziness and scarcity of imagination, but in the fact that in one family it is customary to show love in this way, and in another family - in a completely different way. One is used to receiving love in the form of silent care, while the other is waiting for expensive gifts and endless streams of admiration. Love is one - the language is different. The spouses simply cease to hear and understand each other.
What can be done in this case? How to maintain a relationship and live happily in it?
The wisest decision would be to learn the language of your chosen one and learn how to use all five languages in relationships.
Of course, in order for two people to begin to hear and understand each other, they first need to enter into a dialogue. Relationships can be maintained and strengthened only if both work on this task. Then love will sparkle with all colors and will deliver a lot of joy and pleasure. The union of lovers, speaking to each other in all five languages of love, does not care about any storm.
