Loss of trust often undermines even the most seemingly strong relationships. Although how strong they are, if two suddenly stopped believing in each other … This is a serious sign. But people are connected too many and too tightly, and even after a serious breakup they strive to believe each other again.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to remember all the good things that you experienced with the person you want to believe again. You can forget the bad by making some conclusions that will help in the future; but the good usually stays in your memory for a long time, no matter how much pain the person causes you. Therefore, focus and revive in your memory those bright days when everything was just beginning, when you were fascinated, in love, or already loved truly and strongly. True love is impossible without trust, so you only need to remember what it is like to trust this person.
Step 2
Try again to evaluate it in terms of reason, not feeling. No wonder they say that love passes, respect remains. Remember why you respect this person, because there must be many good features in him, since you do not get tired of fighting for him. Think, maybe he just stumbled, and the realization of his mistake only made him better? People change, although it is actually difficult to believe a person.
Step 3
Fall in love with the person again. After all, once this has already happened? Once upon a time it all started with this. Falling in love embellishes the object of love in the eyes of the one who loves. You will be able to see him or her as he or she may have never been, and this is what you need at the moment. Just do not forget to charm the person yourself, so that the trust that has arisen is not undivided.
Step 4
Discuss future plans with him or her, explain what is in your soul. If a person is serious, he will understand you and will do everything to make you stay with him. Moreover, this will be expressed not only in words, but also in actions, and it is better if words are not said at all. Once a person has already filed a reason for distrust, so it is not his business to spread about his high feelings and respect for you. He has to do, not speak, only then can you believe him again.
Step 5
No matter how strong the love that lives in your heart is, still do not let feelings overwhelm your mind: if you have nothing to believe, you'd better leave. The pain will pass, and you will meet a person who will not have to "believe again" - you can believe and never let go.
