Sometimes it happens that you like a girl, maybe you even love her. But there is one problem: your chosen one is several years older than you. Of course, this situation looks a little out of the box, but you should not despair.
Instructions
Step 1
If you fall in love with a girl who is slightly older than you, you may be hindered by these old notions that a guy should be older than his chosen one. But try to break these commonplace stereotypes. Prove to your beloved that you are no worse than older young people. There are several ways to do this. Be natural when dealing with her. Pretending to be who you are not is a trait of teenage boys. Therefore, in order to please a grown girl, be yourself.
Step 2
Be more confident in yourself and your own strengths. Ladies love self-reliant and self-confident guys, so be that way. Indecision and shyness are very cute traits, but they are characteristic of cowardly and insecure young people.
Step 3
Try to appear inaccessible. Get her attention, but don't run after her, behave like grown men.
Find out what older guys are passionate about and study these subjects. And also just read serious books, watch good films, broaden your horizons, because girls prefer not only handsome men, but also smart ones.
Step 4
Remember that being generous does not mean buying expensive gifts, giving gold, diamonds and cars. This means that you must get rid of commonplace greed. Don't take your girl to the cheapest place on a date. Let it be not a chic expensive restaurant, but a nice and cozy decent cafe. Do not forget about significant dates and always please your beloved with pleasant surprises and modest gifts.
Step 5
Strive to be the perfect person for her. Ask what she likes about people and try to acquire those qualities. Also behave decently, as befits an adult educated man, do not allow yourself indecent acts. Please other girls. This trait should be present in you, but you should not be rude with extremely annoying and annoying young ladies, because this can scare off not only other ladies, but also your chosen one.
Step 6
Don't be henpecked. Never completely agree with a girl, do not follow her lead, always have your own opinion, but you should not use cruelty with rudeness towards her.
Step 7
Be independent. Always make important decisions yourself. Of course, you can ask the girl's advice, but in the end, always do as you decide. Follow these very simple tips, and you can win the heart of any girl, even one who will be a little older than you.
