It is known that love does not come by invitation. And unfortunately, it is not always mutual. What if the girl is not in love with you yet? Psychologists advise to approach the issue thoroughly and in several stages.
Stage one: information gathering and observation
First of all, you need to learn as much as possible about the mysterious person. Experts advise you to think about what you know about your beloved girl? Surely love stupefied you, giving you a feeling of euphoria, and there was no time to think about it. You need to know what the girl loves and what she enjoys. Aspirations and goals in life are also very important. In addition, having found out with whom she likes to communicate, you can better imagine that the girl is a person. At this stage, it is important to know every little thing.
According to experts, this will help you understand how much your beloved suits you, because you can mistakenly take wishful thinking and simply waste your time. In addition, it will be much easier to last longer.
The more common views you have, the more likely you are to achieve your goal. Suitable topics of conversation and new ideas for surprises will appear.
Stage Two: Correct Behavior
Girls love honesty. If you are caught in a lie, it is unlikely that something will work out for you in the future. They are attracted by generosity. Do not be greedy, pamper your chosen one, but in moderation. Treat nicely and persistently. Girls like it when a man is confident. But aggressiveness, of course, is not worth it.
You don't need to run after the girl and humiliate yourself. Behave with dignity. You must be strong and self-reliant.
If you have any talent, now is the time to show it. This will certainly work if you arrange everything in an unusual way. She must remember such a moment.
Surprise your beloved with optimism and a sense of humor. Dating problems are not worth mentioning. The ability to laugh at yourself in a difficult situation is the most important quality that even the most selective girl will appreciate.
If you want to quickly hook her up, use the internet. You can start communicating with her in contact. Discuss school, entertainment, share interesting stories about your mutual acquaintances. Just remember that you can not say anything bad about any of them, as this can only alienate the girl.
Keep your promises. Every self-respecting man should be able to keep his word. Girls are delighted when they know how to listen. But one must not just nod silently, but participate in the conversation. Listening carefully to the words, ask questions, make positive comments. Despite the fact that the chivalrous times have already passed, any woman is pleased to communicate with a gallant man who shakes his hand and opens the door.
In conversation, girls are sensitive to words. If something does not suit you, it is preferable to remain silent than to make sharp remarks. Any woman likes to think about the future and see a potential husband in a partner, the father of her children. In a conversation, you can casually mention that you dream of creating a strong family and love children.
