Many parents have noticed that their children are cruel to animals. If a child tortures animals, this is a signal to parents that the child's life is not well.
Instructions
Step 1
If the child is small, he is 2 - 3 years old, and he crushes insects, lifts the kitten by the tail, kicks the puppy, then, in this way, he most likely satisfies his curiosity. In this case, the problem is solved by reading books about animals or watching the corresponding programs.
Step 2
And if the child is already 6 - 7 years old, the parents constantly teach the child to be gentle with animals, and the child still continues to torment animals and, to the great horror of the parents, enjoys it? There is an opinion that children become violent because of watching cartoons and programs with scenes of violence. In this case, you should pay attention to what your child is watching on TV and on the Internet.
Step 3
However, more often than not, animal cruelty is psychological. Thus, the child "acts out for the adults" on the weaker ones. The child's cruelty is pushed by an internal resentment, most often against those closest to him.
Step 4
The psychological characteristics of children prone to sadistic inclinations are well described in system-vector psychology. Such children have a heightened sense of justice, the downside of which is resentment if someone has acted unfairly (unfair from the point of view of the child). These children are obedient, diligent, slow, and often suffer from constipation. It is easy to form resentment in such children, if you do not take into account their characteristics. For example, a child for some period was obedient, fulfilled the requests of loved ones and expected praise and attention to himself for such behavior. But the adults took it for granted and did not praise it. As a result, the child began to worry about the unfair treatment and harbor resentment. Or, the child is naturally slow and does everything slowly (dresses, eats, sits on the potty for a long time, slowly collects toys, etc.), and his parents constantly rush him, sometimes they can shout or hit him for slowness. And again there is a resentment against the parents.
Step 5
If the parents noticed that the child is mocking the animal, then, most likely, the child has an insult to those closest to him and, thus, he compensates for his inner discomfort. Parents should be more attentive to the child - praise more often, give up physical punishment, do not rush the child when he does something for a long time, do not interrupt his speech if he says something for a long time and slowly.
