You can't order your heart, and sometimes a girl has to turn off an intelligent and nice guy. At the same time, I want to make sure that the refusal does not offend the young man, but also made it clear that there can be no relationship between you.
Instructions
Step 1
Choose the right setting. It is unlikely that a young man will be pleased if you decide to announce that you do not want to meet with him at a noisy party where you just came. Also, do not talk about parting, being with one of you in the apartment. It is best to do this in a neutral place - while walking in a quiet park or sitting at a secluded table in a cafe.
Step 2
Talk to a guy. Calmly explain to him that he is kind, sweet and very much like you as a friend, but you do not have ardent feelings. You should not tell a young man that he is dark, and you like blondes. Emphasize his dignity and tell him that he will certainly meet a girl who will appreciate it. Most likely, the young man will still be upset, but he will not have a reason to hold a grudge against you.
Step 3
If you can't decide on an honest heart-to-heart talk - write a letter. No one will interrupt you, and you will be able to state what you think, point by point, and dot the i's.
Step 4
If a young man is only trying to hit you, tell him that you have a husband or a loved one, and you do not intend to break up with him. Male solidarity still exists, so most likely the unlucky gentleman will apologize and leave you.
Step 5
There is nothing serious between you and there, but it seems to you that the guy is preparing for decisive action? Unobtrusively inform him that you have a boyfriend. To the question "how are you", choking with delight, tell that you went on a date with the gentleman you liked. Such news will immediately cool the ardor of the unlucky lover and at the same time not shake his self-esteem too much.
Step 6
In another heart-to-heart conversation, tell your friend, who is stuffing you into gentlemen, that you recently parted with the love of your life and now want to live freely. You can also make a sinister expression and tell me that you will never build relationships with men again. If you speak convincingly, the young man will believe and go to look for the lady of the heart elsewhere.
