True love is a blessing from above. But what if a man loves you, and you are not interested in him in any way. This kind of love can be a problem for a girl. The situation can be complicated by the fact that the guy continues to insist and does not understand your "no". If this is a stranger young man, it is much easier to refuse him than if he was your friend or someone you know well. It is possible that you have to become stubborn in order to convey your point of view. So how can you refuse a man without hurting him or affecting his feelings?
Instructions
Step 1
To turn down a guy you know well, give him no hope. Do not use the phrases "I'll think about" or "Maybe later." All this can give the man hope or he may think that you are just flirting with him. Tell him your final answer directly and immediately so that there is no misunderstanding between you.
Step 2
Maintain your privacy and don't let the man get close to you. If he has a habit of getting close to you, bend back a little. Do not allow any touching, do not touch him, do not stroke his back or shoulder. Of course, such touching may mean nothing, but not for a man who cares about you. He may perceive them as hope for something more and will continue to haunt you.
Step 3
Tell him bluntly that you like him as a good friend, but nothing more. You must convince him that this phase will not change your relationship. You will probably feel uncomfortable for a while, but still keep telling him that you value your platonic relationship with him.
Step 4
If you are on the road or in a public place and the man is chasing you, keep walking, ignoring him. In case he begins to shower you with compliments, stop, say "Thank you" and continue on your way. If a man asks you to stop, tell him that you cannot, because you should already be in such and such a place. Don't look back or stop because doing so might make him feel different.
Step 5
Let your body language express your thoughts. If the man tries to stop you or you are unable to move, turn away from him, indicating that you really need to walk. If he asks you for a date or a phone number, you can download "I'm really sorry, but I'm not interested." As soon as you manage to move on, leave. If he follows you, repeat it to him constantly. Try to get lost in the crowd or change your route.
Step 6
Don't tell him anything if everything else doesn't work. Do not give up. He may begin to pressure your feelings, for example, asking why you are so cruel. But this is only to gain sympathy and attention. Ignore it.
