Very often on the street you can meet strange couples: handsome guys with inconspicuous gray mice, or attractive ladies with plump men of short stature. This choice of second halves is due to the fact that men began to be afraid to meet beautiful women.
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The presence of a woman, exposed by beauty, is stress for the bulk of men, European scientists came to this conclusion. During the experiment, the representatives of the stronger sex experienced emotions that could affect not only the psychological, but also the physiological components.
In a number of cases, the imbalance in the general condition of the subjects was assessed as a "clinical form of impairment."
So what's going on? Maybe the fear of meeting a beautiful woman lies in the instinct of self-preservation? Everything is much simpler. The complexes of low self-esteem, the substitution of social concepts, the modern cult of prosperity, natural emancipation and many subjective reasons such as the fear of love, together give men the justifiable right not to seek, not to risk rejection, but to go where they will obviously win.
Will beauty save the world and be alone?
Alas, the likelihood of such a scenario is very likely. Lack of self-confidence, a loss of strong gender and maleness, increasingly lead smart enough guys down the path of less resistance. A man is worthy only of the woman who is next to him. “Everyone chooses for himself a woman, religion, path …” Only a man who is confident in himself, in his strengths and capabilities can “read”, hear and feel at the woman's level of space. And then outer beauty becomes just a call, a prologue to basic understanding. This man eagerly "reads" the beauty of body and soul, chapter by chapter … He chose this path.
Such a man is not afraid to love, even if there is no answer. He knows that you cannot be afraid of beauty, it must be achieved every day, achieved and protected.
But there is a simpler, straighter road. There beauty is subjective, there love without an answer is a disease. There, at the sight of a beautiful, self-sufficient woman, only doubts arise in a man, which later mutate into jealousy. They believe that they are not able to become the only one for such an ideal lady, so they try to choose those who look simpler and more modest. It is here that a man is harmed by a complex of low self-esteem. The prologue and the epilogue are all in a couple of lines, everything is one piece. He longs for this beauty, but is afraid of it, because he is not sure of himself. And makes a choice in favor of another girl. And then he looks for an excuse for himself, reassuring himself that he really chose what he needs. In order to somehow justify themselves, the guys begin to talk about the fact that beautiful girls are most often stupid, eccentric, windy.
This position gave rise to and gave a new impetus to the modern stage of emancipation. Self-sufficiency and high social viability of a woman is not always her choice; most likely, there is simply no other choice. Emancipation is a side effect of male laziness, self-doubt and basic cowardice. Beauty goes only to those who deserve it.
