The proposal to get married is a serious step not only for a man, but also for the woman who receives it. Before you take any step, you need to think it over carefully. It is necessary to understand whether the man is really serious or makes such an offer for another reason, especially if it comes two weeks after they met.
What a surprise
The first date with the man went well. It doesn't matter where it happened, the main thing is that the atmosphere is filled with only positive emotions. When she returns home, all her thoughts will be filled with this man. Every moment will be remembered - to the smallest detail. But the woman will not think about something serious yet, because it is too early for this.
Two weeks have passed since the first date, and now he calls for marriage. For a woman, this will come as a surprise. It is this proposal that will make the girl think about how serious the intentions of her chosen one are.
What does he really want?
In a situation where a man calls for marriage after two weeks of dating, there may be several options for understanding his intentions. But one does not need to think that the logic of the opposite sex is simple: if he called him in marriage, then it is so, and does not imply any self-interest.
First, as you know, the duration of dates and meetings does not always negatively affect the quality of marriage. Some meet for a long time, but after getting married, they cannot live together for a year, they get divorced. For others, a short period of time is enough to understand that this is their soul mate, with whom they want to live their whole life. Therefore, if a man proposed to marry him, one should not give hasty answers.
Secondly, if after two weeks the man is ripe for the proposal, but at the same time offers the woman to move in with him immediately, you should think about whether there is any catch in his decision. In such a situation, there are two options:
- a man is really crazy about a woman and is ready to do crazy things for her;
- he has a selfish interest, hiding behind a proposal of a hand and heart.
In the first case, a man in any way tries to prove to a woman that he has sincere love for her. In the second version, he uses various tricks to drag the girl into bed.
It must be remembered that not every man decides to propose to a woman after two weeks of dating. It will be appropriate for him to get to know each other better, to get to know the family of the chosen one. Some men, before getting married, decide to check their relationship with a woman in everyday life.
How to determine its severity?
A woman should try to find out if a man is in a difficult situation, such as a quarrel with a girl or a divorce. Married men generally do not make rash decisions. Therefore, it will be useful for a woman to find out if he just wants to have fun in this way.
You need to pay attention to whether he is interested in his chosen one, as a person. If he talks more about himself, then the seriousness of his intentions is worth questioning.
It is necessary to remember whether he kept his promises. If he said that he would call at five, but did it only after a few hours or days, making the girl worry, you should think about his intentions. Such irresponsibility can only be tolerated if he had a good reason not to keep his promise.
A man with serious intentions has a definite and predictable behavior. Saying goodbye to the woman, he plans a new meeting, says that he will call in the evening (at lunchtime, in the morning).
If a man insists on intimacy, disregarding the desires of a woman, then he only wants this. A decent person will wait for a woman to give her consent to such a serious step in their relationship.
Before agreeing to a man's proposal to marry him, you need to understand whether the woman herself is ready for such a step. After that, you should pay attention to him. Only after realizing that his intentions are serious, give his answer.
