The manifestation of love between a mother and a father is not at all similar. The mother loves the child as if it was genetically inherent, and the father, on the contrary, approaches this issue in detail.
Very often, dads do not take part in games with babies, completely leaving this to mom. Games allow the child to get used to the father, to his appearance and the timbre of his voice. Growing up, the child will not perceive him as something alien. In turn, the father learns to understand his child from the first days of life.
A father for a son is, first of all, support and protection. It is not difficult to establish a relationship with a little son, all that is required from the dad is communication and a genuine interest in his affairs.
With a schoolboy, the father can play men's games - football, hockey, basketball. Also, the father can do male household chores with him. Hammer a nail together, hang a shelf, or take your son to the garage. Only by constantly seeing an example in front of him will a boy grow up to be a real man. The grown-up son wants an equal relationship with his father. And often teenage rebellion in the family is caused precisely by the unwillingness of the father to see his son as an equal man.
All children are naughty, and parents are forced to punish them. Dad's punishments are usually more severe than those of the mother. Physical punishment will be much more effective and better than humiliation and ridicule. You just need to explain the mistakes.
The foundation of a father-son relationship is trust. The father should always be interested in the life of his son, to be near. If the dad remains indifferent, the son's need to communicate with him disappears. The son will find himself a more grateful listener, or he will withdraw into himself. And in a father-son relationship, a crack will appear.
