If a woman is overburdened with household chores, it negatively affects her health and mood. To avoid such misunderstandings, you need to call your husband for help. By gradually accustoming a man to some household chores, you can get a full-fledged au pair.
Instructions
Step 1
For a few days, just don't do your usual homework. When a man sees how much laundry you wash and iron, what mountains of dishes you have to wash, and eats store dumplings, it is very likely that he will finally appreciate your daily work and agree to take on some of the responsibilities.
Step 2
Divide household chores between yourself and your husband. For example, he washes the dishes and takes out the trash, while you iron the laundry and prepare the food. You can also distribute responsibilities by day of the week: on Monday, Wednesday and Friday you wash the dishes, and on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday your partner.
Step 3
Teach your loved one to do this or that homework as you see fit. It turns out that some of the stronger sex have no idea how to do it well.
Step 4
Purchase state of the art technology with many options. It's no secret that men are more inclined to interact with all kinds of gadgets than women. Ask your husband to deal with a new vacuum cleaner or dishwasher. While he will get acquainted with the sophisticated technology, he will understand that it will not be difficult to put things in order with the help of such devices. After that, it will be easier for you to get your husband to do the housework.
Step 5
Give the man an ultimatum and tell him that if he does not do this and that, then you will not do this and that. Of course, not a very honest way, but the effect of it can be impressive. But remember that blackmailing shouldn't be rude, as men don't like pressure. Treat it gently but firmly.
Step 6
If your faithful person has any preferences in housework, give him the right to choose. Let the man do what he likes.
Step 7
Do not force your husband to do household chores just like that - "so as not to relax." His help should be relevant and demanded after the fact. Don't turn your loved one into a housekeeper. Let household chores be a joint activity.
Step 8
Be sure to praise your husband for any manifestation of thrift, focus on how well he is doing this or that business. Men love to feel important. Having received sincere gratitude from you, your partner will do everything to hear these words again.
