Many men refuse to help their wives with the housework, this is a woman's business. Breaking stereotypes. How can you get your spouse to help out around the house?
Instructions
Step 1
A man needs to be taught to help with the housework from the first days of life together. After several years together, the husband will get used to comfort and coziness, the maintenance of which did not require his participation for a long time. Teaching your spouse to help around the house will not be easy.
Step 2
Try to leave your husband homework, housework, and go away for the whole day on your own business. It is unlikely that the spouse will have time to do all the tasks assigned to him, he will only be surprised how you manage to do everything. This will make your spouse respect your work and take more care of himself on his own. This is a good start.
Step 3
Many women wait in vain for men to take the initiative themselves and rush to help around the house. Even transparent hints don't work with them. If you need help around the house, ask your spouse directly and a loving husband will be happy to answer your call.
Step 4
If a man helped you once, do not wait for his initiative. Remind about household chores, that you cannot cope with something without him. Do not burden your husband with several assignments at once, gradually add responsibilities and over time the spouse will get used to helping you on his own.
Step 5
Do not force your spouse to do an unloved business, let him choose a business to his liking. There are enough household chores, give him a choice. Let him do what he does best.
Step 6
If something doesn't work out for your spouse, don't scold or criticize. Better do it quietly. So you can easily discourage the hunt. Better next time show how it is correct, the spouse will try and everything will definitely work out.
Step 7
Be sure to thank your husband for the work done. Praise is important for men, even for the smallest feats. Praise your spouse, so you can keep the desire to help you further.
Step 8
Never do a man's work. Firstly, it can be harmful to health, for example, lifting weights, and secondly, a man must get used to performing his direct duties, this makes him feel important and needed.
Step 9
If persuasion and soft requests don't work, don't do anything. Take care of yourself, your personal affairs. Most likely, the man will give up, reluctantly, but will do what you want from him, but without much enthusiasm, so you should not resort to this method often.
