For a huge number of families, a typical picture: a spouse came home from work, sat down on the sofa and turned on the TV and froze. Is it possible to fix this situation?
After the wedding, men are very fond of repeating that unexpected metamorphoses are taking place with their wives. The fairy quickly turns into a shrew. This is because a caring man turns into a lazy person. Women get annoyed, men continue to be lazy. And so in a circle. Is it possible to inspire a man to feats?
Men often do housework with the look of a superman saving the world. It is easier for them to complete all the feats of Hercules. Why did he get married at all, if he has a keeper of the hearth? It is important to convey the message that you are both working and tired. But despite this, it is on the shoulders of the woman that all the worries fall. Offer to share household chores. Indeed, a spouse may refuse to fulfill "female" responsibilities. In this case, you should not give up, it is better to clarify what they are and how often he does them around the house. It will not be superfluous to admit that at work you get tired no less than a man, which means that you have no less rights to rest.
Praise is a powerful weapon in the hands of a weak woman. You shouldn't skimp on approval. Give thanks, compliment, smile, even if the man did something completely irrelevant. Show that you are happy when your spouse is helping you. Men do not like to be spoken to in a commanding tone, whine and constantly remind of something. Say sweetly that you are tired and ask.
Your spouse may not take hints if you sigh that you don't like home improvement. It is necessary to speak directly about the need to make repairs. It is better to issue requests one at a time, rather than in bulk. So the tasks seem easy and the man will get down to business quickly.
And you can also invite a man to think about such a thought - he, like everyone else, uses this house, dishes, linen and so on. Cleaning up after yourself is not helping your wife, but basic hygiene rules that everyone must follow.
