Often, a baby who is destined to be born only after nine months, from the very moment the pregnancy is detected, completely occupies all the thoughts of the expectant mother. This is normal and completely natural, but not for some men. When a beloved woman constantly discusses with her friend which stroller is better to buy, it seems to him that he is no longer interested in her. Therefore, you need to dissuade him of this as soon as possible.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk about his work more often, even if you haven't done it before. Or any other topic that you often discussed together before getting pregnant. As a last resort, talk about various trifles, just do not need to discuss the color of wallpaper for the children's room for the hundredth time.
Step 2
Give your husband small gifts from time to time, such as buying him a cute tie or a ticket to a football match. Also, don’t refuse to go somewhere with him. No matter what your husband says, it is very difficult for him to see you disheveled in robes, especially if you could not go out before without putting on your lips. Watch yourself. A pregnant woman should evoke admiration, not sympathy.
Step 3
Do not neglect gymnastics for pregnant women, watch your body and face, wear special underwear. Remember that having become pregnant, you have not ceased to be a woman, and your man is a loving husband, so intimate relationships should not remain in the past, unless, of course, there are no contraindications from a doctor.
Step 4
If your husband begins to be jealous of your future baby, do not be discouraged. Just talk and explain that the child is the fruit of your love, and there should be no competition between them.
Step 5
In order for the spouse to feel more and more like a father every day and take care of you, be sure to share your feelings and experiences with him. But don't forget that it doesn't have to be “hours of suffering” about how bad you are.
Step 6
Do not persuade your husband to go with you to the antenatal clinic, arguing that your friend's husband did it. People are all different, and your spouse can find ways to support you, such as helping you disassemble a wardrobe for baby clothes or buying a baby bath from the store.
Step 7
Remember that having a baby is not only working together and testing the strength of your relationship, but also raising feelings that will help you become gentle, caring and loving parents.
