“… A wise woman, even having quarreled with her husband, will still prepare him a meal. A wise man, even if he's right, will come and kiss his wife. Wisdom comes over the years! " How accurately and correctly these words were chosen. Each of us begins to relate to life and the people around him differently only when he becomes older and wiser. Someone very quickly learns life and past relationships, and someone does not learn a lesson and continues to go with the flow in the same channel.
All people are divided into several types.
There are melancholic ones who always feel discouraged. They like calmness, despondency, loneliness, self-pity, etc. What kind of quarrels can be with their participation? Maximum risk!
What does it mean? Let's say you are this type of woman. You have a man - active, purposeful, etc. Do you think you will have scandals? Undoubtedly. He needs a woman who is more active and cheerful. Otherwise, he will strive to go forward, and you will constantly pull him back.
And vice versa, if a man is a pessimist - a woman will be bored with him, she will look for some kind of outlet in the entertainment of herself.
Two choleric people in the family also threaten with frequent scandals, since they have explosive temperaments.
At the beginning of a relationship, we can still stop in time and understand who is next to us. But mostly our brain clouded interest and love. If we didn’t notice such a big difference between us in time - everything spills out into swearing, here we also add constant sawing due to shortcomings.
Why is this happening? We stop adjusting to the person, we bend our “I” more and more often we get irritated and upset. Almost everything starts to enrage us in the second half: how he eats, how he walks, how he speaks, how he puts away his things, etc.
Everyone sees the same flaws. Therefore, there is such a myth that men scatter socks, get dirty, bore, eat a lot, etc., while women saw, gather for a long time, spend money on nonsense and much more.
And these are not just the attitudes of society. You yourself want to see it all!
If you feel that something like this is starting to happen to you, talk about it with your loved one. Tell us what worries you, why you are annoyed, try to get carried away by what your loved one is doing, find something in common, start at least fooling around more often. Better yet, drop your business and rush off somewhere.
Just stay together, without everyday life and quarrels, without reproaches. Get yourself a honeymoon or honeymoon couple.
Remember that you yourself have chosen this person. Now you yourself must sculpt it - every day, little by little, carefully. Women, your men are kings, and you are their crown. Therefore, you must be smarter and more compliant.
Women are tricky cats, so why not use it?
Even if something happens, you should not rush at your spouse with fists and yell. Deal with the problem over a cup of tea. There is a way out of any situation.
Your man will be grateful for your understanding and support. Be wiser. Men love wise women.
And you should never show women that she is the head of the family (even if this is the case), this degrades the dignity of your strong half. Give him the opportunity to be your king.