Not sure where to start to get a happy ending? We offer several ways to make your foreplay unforgettable.
Many people think that preparation for sex is more necessary for women than for men who instantly turn on in bed. But research shows that most women take about 4 minutes to bring themselves to an unforgettable orgasm on their own. Why, then, is foreplay considered an indispensable and indispensable element of sexual play? If not in physiology, then what's the matter?
In an acquaintance. Long preludes are needed for those who have not spent much time together. Indeed, in the course of preliminary leisurely caresses, you will find out all the preferences of your partner.
In love. It is very important for a woman to feel loved, desired, to appreciate the feelings of a partner. Tenderness in the ear is one of the ways to show her everything that she wants.
In a craving for novelty. Sooner or later, even sex can become boring. What's next? You can try old tricks with new partners. Or you can discover something unknown in a person who has been sharing a bed with you for several years.
In control. Sexologists argue that foreplay for men is not so much a way to turn on themselves, but a way to control the level of arousal. And both his and his partner.
Aged. The older the man, the more testosterone problems. This means that he needs a foreplay no less than a woman. Sexual attunement doesn't just happen in bed. It all starts much earlier, long before you step into the bedroom. There are a lot of ways to awaken passion in yourself and your companion.
Flirt! Play and coquetry - something that comes naturally at the first meeting and is forgotten with the practice of joint relationships. Meanwhile, flirting perfectly dilutes boredom and ignites the fire of desire. Let's say more: flirting is not even necessary with a loved one. Some are turned on by the game of interest as such: it is nice to slay, for example, half of the restaurant's visitors, in order to cheer up and then present a "charge of cheerfulness" to their only one.
Love in the distance. Long letters are a thing of the past, at your service - spicy SMS, chats and social networks. You can tease yourself right under the noses of your superiors: pretend that you are drawing up a tax report and at the same time send your beloved a cute MMS. Even if you meet every day, practice sometimes phone or Skype sex. The main thing is not to embarrass others.
Experiments with lingerie. Throw away the comfy panties immediately, buy sexy thongs - and forget to wear them for a walk with your beloved. Do not forget to notify forgetfulness when he least expects it. Gallop to your home or hotel is guaranteed.
Speak, I can't hear you. More precisely, call things by their proper names. No, not a kitten bunny. And "I want you" or "you turn me on". These men are ready to listen over and over again. Determine the boundaries of reason yourself: some in bed are happy to use brutal vocabulary, for others it is taboo. But on both women and men, whispering in the ear has the same exciting effect - after all, there are many erogenous zones around the ear and on the neck.
Only kisses. There is no part of the body that is not enjoyable to kiss. Surrender to this passionate and sensual process - start kissing. Miracles will happen to both the imagination and the circulation. It is possible that the kissing foreplay will immediately develop into an orgasm, bypassing other stages. And you can limit yourself, on the contrary, only to kisses - this is also terribly exciting.
Everybody dance. It is widely believed that it is enough to look at a person in a dance - and to understand what he is standing in bed. Statement unproven. But the fact that men love with their eyes is obvious. Dance while preparing breakfast for him, invite him to a white dance to your favorite song, arrange a striptease to music when it gets dark. And, mind you, don't touch it with your hands, just look!
Crumbs in bed. It is better to replace breakfast in bed with dinner. Do not rush to carry baked pork knuckle with rice to your bed, limit yourself to dessert: sorbet, chocolate, strawberries, champagne - classic. We do not urge you to lick the cream off your beloved knees, but eating one strawberry together is very romantic.
Knead the bones. Why, when the word "massage" comes to mind, the definition of "erotic" immediately comes to mind? Any massage is pleasant for a person who has spent half a day huddled at a desk. Warm your partner's shoulders, scratch his heels, sit astride, and gently massage your back. And then - how it goes.
Know your role. Role-playing games are probably a great offer, but they need courage, but where can you get it? Take a lying position (in bed and in an embrace). Play your favorite movie to watch together. Comedy? Laughter is relaxing and positive. Drama? Let him pity you. And if it's erotic, you won't have to invent anything.
