Why did he cheat again? Perhaps this question worries every woman who had to face a lie from her beloved man. And really, what's the matter? After all, a woman tries to create coziness, to show care, she sincerely loves and appreciates … And he is lying again - both on trifles, and, as they say, on a large scale.
Perhaps, if this is repeated over and over again, then it would be quite reasonable not to cry into the pillow, and not to threaten to leave, but simply to ask yourself the question: "For what reason does a man cheat?" And if the answer to this question is not found so quickly, then you can try to find it by studying the most common reasons for male lies:
- you are constantly wondering what kind of relationship he has with his "ex" girlfriend. The man replies that he does not even communicate with her - but you, with your own eyes, just the other day saw them together on the street … Think: maybe the man is just tired of the "pressure" and therefore prefers to lie rather than indulge in lengthy explanations? Try to calm down. Most likely, time will pass, and your loved one will tell everything himself.
- the man is again late for your meeting, and when he finally arrives, he begins to make excuses, come up with completely incredible excuses. In this case, most likely, he is simply afraid to admit his own lack of punctuality and forgetfulness.
- in the company of friends, your beloved, usually a modest and quiet person, suddenly begins to talk about some of his unprecedented achievements. Do not disclose it to strangers under any circumstances! Perhaps a person is thus trying to reveal his own potential. But if you reproach him for bragging, your relationship can go badly. Better to play along - you will see how your beloved will be grateful to you!
- yesterday he promised to wash the dishes, sweep the floor and buy groceries for the week in advance. But a day passed, and, not a single promise was fulfilled. At the same time, the man begins to lie that he was very busy and could not fulfill his promise. Don't worry, just punish him a little. Haven't bought any groceries? Left without supper. And so in everything. But, in any case, do not make a scandal. You love your man, which means that you are ready to forgive his shortcomings. Most likely, he will stop cheating when he can assert himself and understand that you can be trusted.
