What is ideal sex like? For everyone, the answer to this question will be different, however, there are rules, remembering which you can get the maximum pleasure and sensual pleasure from the process.
Prepare in advance
Of course, a sudden outbreak of passion can find you anywhere, but in this case, sex will give you a lot of bright and unforgettable moments anyway. But if lovemaking happens to you regularly, at the same time and according to approximately the same scenario, it is worth thinking about introducing variety. To prevent intimacy from becoming a routine necessity, try to give it new, unfamiliar shades. Flirt with each other during the day, write love confessions, do not be afraid to seem stupid or too relaxed - foreplay, at times, can excite partners much more than the love game itself.
How are your intimate dates going? In the same room with the lights off under the covers? It's time to bring some romance into your bedroom. Believe me, even if it seems to you and your partner that this is unnecessary nonsense, such changes will certainly have a revitalizing effect on your feelings. Buy a soft-light lamp that will barely light up your room in the dark, light a few candles or a stick of incense. Everything new tickles your nerves and makes your consciousness more active, so your closeness will take on a completely different shade, become more sensual and new. Just experiment.
Think about sex
Like any important business, lovemaking requires full presence from partners. That is why there is no need to think about anything else at this time. The laundry, the project at work, the billing debts, the pie in the oven - all these thoughts kill the necessary mood and make your sex a purely mechanical act. You want to have fun and deliver it to your loved one, so you need to concentrate on this. Another important rule that many do not think about is contraception. If you don't think about pancakes or going to the dentist, but the thought of a possible pregnancy is constantly spinning in your head, what a romantic mood here. Remember - the best sex is the one in which you are only attuned to each other.
Anything can happen in life and it happens that one of the partners may not want intimacy. In this case, you should frankly tell your loved one about it. If you agree and perform all actions purely mechanically, without joy, your partner will feel it, and you yourself will not experience much joy. In addition, sometimes small breaks in your sex life allow you to gain strength and come up with something really interesting for the next time. The main thing is your attitude.
