All children need communication, friendship, father's attention. From childhood, a girl learns to communicate with the opposite sex, a boy becomes a man only having an example to follow. Unfortunately, children often grow up with little or no involvement from their dad. There is sad statistics - today the average man spends less than 10 minutes a day with his child. The situation is simply disastrous!
Instructions
Step 1
Of course, you can understand dad. All day at work, late in the evening upon coming home, he feels only one desire - to lie down and fall asleep. In addition, there is a woman nearby, always ready to lend a shoulder. However, due to this situation, contact with the child is completely lost. Hence the misunderstanding and quarrels. What to do? Let's consider several options.
Step 2
If the child is still very young, this is even good. The sooner the dad starts to communicate closely with the child, the easier it will be further. It often happens that a man does not know what to do with a little one. He is afraid, he is lost. In such cases, the mother should often, at the slightest opportunity, leave the father alone with the baby. In this case, they just have to find a common language.
Step 3
If dad just physically does not have time to see the child on weekdays, if he comes home late from work, when the baby is already asleep, there are days off. Plan an activity for the whole family every weekend. It can be a trip to the zoo, a circus. You can just go to the park, play badminton, ball. Have a picnic in nature. What exactly you will do, it does not matter - the main thing is that you are all together. Time together is the best way to build relationships. Believe me, the kid will never forget these days.
Step 4
It would be very helpful to find some activity that only dad and child can do. For example, to fix something, hammer, assemble a model. If dad is a fisherman, you can take your child with you on a fishing trip. Common hobbies, some secrets known only to both of them will quickly bring them closer. The child will be proud of such a skillful dad, appreciate his trust.
