Often, after a woman becomes aware of her husband's infidelity, she nevertheless decides to keep the marriage. But continuing to live with this person under one roof, she once realizes that nothing and will never be the same as before. Can treason be forgiven?
Should I forgive treason?
Family psychologists say that everything depends on how a woman perceives the situation and the role of her husband in it. If for her he is a traitor who has committed a disgusting act, then the relationship is deliberately doomed. And if for a woman a husband is a native person who stumbled, made a mistake, got confused, then it will be much easier for her to accept and forgive treason. Of course, the behavior of a man in this case is of great importance. If he seeks to preserve the relationship and regrets what happened, then there is a possibility that the woman will decide not to bring the matter to a divorce.
How to improve relationships after infidelity
Let's take a look at some tips to help make it easier to recover from an affair. First of all, you need to calmly and without hysterics talk with your husband, try to find out the circumstances that prompted him to cheat and his view of the current situation. If his remorse seems sincere, and he is ready to promise that he will no longer do this, then you can try to forgive him. Sometimes a good way out of a situation is to decide to live separately for a while. In this case, the spouses have a lot of time to think about what happened, and it is also quite possible that they will have time to miss each other and understand how important the family is to them.
In this difficult period, a woman should do something that has always been fascinating, but, as they say, her hands did not reach. Embroidery, fitness, dancing - the choice of hobbies is huge, and the benefits are quite tangible: you can discover new talents and opportunities in yourself, get away from sad thoughts.
In no case should you forget about yourself. Hairstyle, manicure, pedicure, make-up, new wardrobe - all this will definitely cheer you up and allow you to fall in love with yourself again, to feel your attractiveness and beauty.
How to save a marriage
Having once made a decision to save the family, in no case should you remind your husband of his misdemeanor. Yes, it is almost impossible to erase this unpleasant moment from memory, but seeing the desire of the husband to return the relationship to its usual track, you need to try to do it. Only time can help, so it's better to be patient and believe in the best. The main advice given by psychologists is not to be alone and remember that life goes on, and even if this man is still not there, there are many other ways to feel happy.
