Unlike women, who are naturally monogamous, men prefer to be real "males." Even if his wife is a gorgeous blonde with lush breasts, he will still look "around".
Instructions
Step 1
To save their nerves, women initially need to come to terms with the fact that men are polygamous. If he stares at that beauty, then it is not at all necessary that he pounced on her.
Step 2
There are, of course, those who dare to walk to the left. And even if it was only once, it is not so easy to forgive. What to do in a situation of male infidelity, when the family means a lot and both partners have no desire to disperse? A woman needs to start by thinking well and understanding herself: is she ready to live on pins and needles, nervous and worried even because of a five-minute delay, will she not, in any situation, even without a reason, consider that he is with other.
Step 3
Step one: understand
The husband will most likely be on his knees in front of you, crying, wringing his hands and saying that this was the first and last time. You probably don't want to listen to his excuses now, since they are stupid and pathetic? But, better listen. Really, listen to him. You can even ask questions: who is she, what is she, why it happened, what he liked about her, and what repulses. This will seem absurd to you, but both you and him will feel better. In addition, you can leave some "notes" for yourself. After all, for some reason he cheated on you and something is still missing for her husband. It is important to understand what exactly, to eliminate any shortcomings in yourself and in relationships.
Step 4
What not to do
First, shouting, making him guilty of all sins and throwing up daily scandals - spoil the nerves of both yourself and your husband. There is also no need to look for a "homewoman", drag her by the hair and throw reproaches at her. Men do not like brawlers, and the chances that after all this he will leave, only grow. Yes, and you just wind yourself up.
Try to get revenge. The point is to pretend that you have a lover or someone is caring for you, and even more so to do it in reality? This will only hurt his pride and manhood, but you will not make it easier for yourself.
Look for someone to blame. No one is to blame, it just so happened. Just accept it and never remember.
Step 5
Step two: forgive
You can forgive the betrayal only after you understand it, accept what happened and stop dwelling on it. It will undoubtedly be easier to calm down and not blame yourself if you start taking care of yourself: procedures in beauty salons, new clothes and style. This will not only distract, but, believe me, will surprise and interest your husband; you will become attractive and desirable again.
Step 6
You can forgive treason only if you really want it and are ready to forget. To forget, and not to put it aside in a far corner, so that at the next scandal, you can reach and poke your husband in this with his nose, like a playful kitten.
