Often, a vacation on a sunny beach abroad without a husband ends with a resort romance. How can you save your marriage and forgive yourself if you are repentant?
Almost any betrayal occurs through the fault of both sexes. A woman in a relationship with her husband may lack affection, passion, she does not feel attractive and young. In the end, disappointed in his wife, he leaves for a long-awaited vacation on the sunny sea alone, without him. She starts a holiday romance, and she is unfaithful to her husband. Repentant women are visited by fear and horror, shame and pain. She betrayed the man who was so loyal to her. How now to look him in the eye?
How to forgive yourself and forget about cheating?
Often a woman tries to speak out to her friends or close relatives. This cannot be done. Information about your holiday romance may accidentally (or not accidentally) surface in a conversation in the presence of your spouse. Also, you should not confess to treason to your husband, hoping for his forgiveness. For a man it is a huge trauma to learn that his wife has betrayed him and preferred another. A man can hold a grudge for several years, remembering your mistake with every quarrel. Perhaps you will ease your soul by telling your husband about cheating, but only ruin your relationship with him.
To forgive yourself (this is the first step to forgetting an affair), you need to analyze what prompted you to cheat, what you lacked in your marriage. Accept that a mistake has already been made, try to fix the relationship with your husband, adding missing elements to them, be it romance, flirting or passion. Start first and your man will take the initiative. Have a romantic dinner, buy new lace lingerie. Make your spouse happy.
Try to write on paper the entire history of the holiday romance from start to finish, with all the details, as many times as you see fit, until you feel relieved, and burn all those sheets of paper covered with writing. By burning your manuscripts, you release the holiday romance story into the past. She helped to understand that you need to complement the relationship with your man with new colors. The main thing is to forgive yourself. The best medicine is time.
Don't cheat on your loved ones!
