Men are not aliens from Mars: male psychology largely repeats female psychology. But in some aspects, there are also fundamental differences. So how not to get lost in all the variety of male needs and dislikes and choose the right strategy for the game?
Food, drink, shelter, comfort, warmth, safety and relaxation are all basic physiological needs of a man. Without them, he will not be able not only to feel happy, but also to live a normal life. Provide the man with satiety, comfort, coziness and tranquility. And he will be pleased, and you can look very attractive in his eyes, leaving potential competitors “overboard”. Sexual release is no less important for a man. However, it would be wrong to think that sex is a stumbling block in all his thoughts, in which he seeks consolation for all his sorrows. On the contrary, a man can be tired, immersed in his worries, not in a mood, busy solving any important problems. It is unlikely that at these moments he will appreciate your harassment. And to relieve stress and tension, he can choose a punching bag, chess with a friend or playing solitaire. As for safety, a man needs protection not from mice and hooligans, as is customary among women. First of all, they want a reliable, stable future: stable income, stable prices for food and gasoline, confidence in the future. Despite the fact that men are often considered adventurers, seekers of novelty and adventure, the need for security is not at all alien to them. It is important for a man to feel that he belongs to a community or company. This is a socially conditioned need. His like-minded people can be colleagues at work, friends with the same interests, communists and cosmopolitans, fishing enthusiasts or fans of Zenith. Don't think that he is trying to escape the relationship by spending time in any other social niche. Do not take men's "feats" and, in general, what he does for you, for granted. A man can be ambitious, he wants to be recognized for his merits and talents. Celebrate his successes and achievements, admire his skills, ask for the help that he is able to give you, thank you for every hammered nail, and he will rather rumble in your hands.
