There are dozens, if not hundreds, of reasons for the breakdown of a spouse's relationship. From a misunderstood gesture to a fleeting flirtation with a husband's buddy. We will look at general guidelines for women, what to do and what to avoid in order to improve relationships with their spouses.
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Instructions
Step 1
Let go of your judgmental attitude. Like mercury vapor, it can poison not only family relationships, it can poison your whole life. Even if it seems to you that “he is to blame for everything,” keep in mind that mental criticality is a serious obstacle to restoring relations with your husband.
Step 2
Look at your husband as the most important person to you. This mindset will not allow you to retreat in your pursuit of peace. Focus on the positive qualities of your spouse, especially those for which you once fell in love with him. His attentiveness, care and kindness, did they irrevocably melt away?
Step 3
Do not let hurt words. Self-justification and nagging will only exacerbate the tension in the relationship. The desire to improve relations with the husband should not be accompanied by hints that he, too, is to blame for what happened. Otherwise, you force him to verbal self-defense.
Step 4
Start with kind, sweet words. Well thought out words of a wise wife can heal and restore relationships. Start with an affectionate "can I ask you?" or "do you have a few minutes for me?"
Step 5
Give him a practical gift. According to the "golden rule", do to your husband what you want him to do to you. Before the start of a reconciling conversation, acquire something that will pleasantly surprise your spouse. Remember if he wanted to buy a new tie or shirt, or maybe he dreamed of a real Uzbek pilaf the other day.
