When a girl grows up, her perception of the world changes dramatically, the requirements of the mother seem stupid and ridiculous, and her friends acquire a great influence on her daughter. To improve relations with your daughter, you must first of all realize that speaking to her like a child, you hurt her pride. There is a certain unspoken etiquette of communication between parents and teenagers.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk to her as if she were the same age, confidentially, on an equal footing. Only then the girl will not move away from you, seeing in you an adult friend with whom she can share her innermost.
Step 2
If you cannot see in your daughter an adult who needs to be respected, then the attempt to "play friendship" will fail, and insincerity will only aggravate the girl's mistrust of you.
Step 3
Communication without reproaches and lectures is the best line of behavior with a teenager. Do not blame her for wanting to wear a skirt that is too short to school, but calmly explain that this skirt is for going to the club with a company.
Step 4
If your words caused aggression and rudeness on the part of your daughter, you should not answer the girl in the same way, but respond calmly with dignity.
Step 5
No need to scold or praise your daughter in front of strangers. Your eulogies can engender vanity in a girl, and if you start to sort things out in front of guests, it will ruin, rather not her reputation, but your own - in the eyes of her friends.
Step 6
Support your daughter more often in difficult situations, periodically repeat the wording of what you want to teach her, but do not reproach if something does not go as you expect.
Step 7
Listening to your daughter's opinion will give her a sense of responsibility for making decisions. If she's right, don't be afraid to apologize.
