Sooner or later, we begin to notice that our family life is no longer the same as before, it has changed for the worse or for the better, it is up to you to decide, and it is in your power to change the situation if it does not suit you.
First you need to come to terms with the fact that the other person cannot be changed. The only person you can change is yourself. A family is always the result of a relationship between two people, do not rush to blame your spouse for all the sins, usually the responsibility lies with two people.
If you think that your other half does not respect you, first think about whether you respect her. And if you respect, do you behave in such a way that your partner can see it?
Has your husband stopped complimenting you? And ask yourself, how long have you told him how smart and strong he is? Start complimenting first, you are not a child to resentfully wait for your husband to figure out why you are angry with him.
Or the opposite situation - your wife has stopped caring for you, cooks for you, you have to ask for everything and more than once. Remember, before you yourself looked after her, tried to make her pleasant. And now it will be even easier for you to do it, because you know perfectly well what she loves. And it's not about expensive gifts, sometimes you just need a few pleasant little things to remind a woman that you love her and return the desire to engage in your comfort.
Learn to resolve conflicts calmly. Of course, yelling is the easiest thing to do, but how embarrassing it is later for your words spoken in a fit of anger. If you don’t like something you don’t need to say right away, first think about what exactly you don’t like, how you can solve it, and only then calmly express your thoughts to your partner.
Don't be selfish. It is natural for a person to defend their beliefs, but sometimes you need to look at the situation from the other side, think - is your partner happy. Ideally, spouses in marriage are equally dependent on each other, in practice this happens very rarely. As they say: "Someone loves, someone allows himself to be loved." In any case, the family is not a place for wars of independence, try to remain a self-sufficient person and give the same opportunity to your partner.
And most importantly - do not rush from one extreme to another. Family life shouldn't be like a thrash action movie, but it's not worth turning it into a boring series either. Find your sweet spot and love your other half, because this is the most important thing.
