For many people, the family is the main source of happiness, so they want to see it strong. But family relations have their own complex laws, their crises, their own periods of development. And it is important to go through all these stages consciously. Then you will have a good chance to live a long, happy life together.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to live in a civil marriage. The first step towards creating a strong family, strange as it may sound to many, can be a civil marriage. While there are some downsides to this kind of relationship, it's a great test of compatibility. There is an opportunity to get used to, get used to each other and either make this relationship official, or postpone marriage, or break up. Quarrels over trifles, mutual claims in an official marriage can lead to a breakup only because a person begins to feel that he is being suppressed, his freedom is being infringed, and most importantly, there is no turning back. In a civil marriage, the "rubbing time" is less painful. And don't forget that both people must want to start a family and be together.
Step 2
Recognize and respect the qualities and characteristics of a partner, his right to be himself. There is no need to "remake" your partner, "adjust" him to fit your ideas about the ideal. It is more important to love and accept a loved one for who he is.
Step 3
Do not forget that the family is based on the woman. It is she who is the keeper of the family hearth. It creates a seed aura, comfort, coziness, in general, everything that we call the "family world". And, first of all, the "weather in the house" depends on the woman. But by no means become a victim. There must be an adequate distribution of responsibilities and responsibilities in the family.
Step 4
Create your own traditions. This will strengthen the family. For example, birthday parties, family gatherings on Sunday dinners, or outdoor trips. Yes, there are many more things you can think of. It is important that everyone enjoys it.
Step 5
Create an atmosphere of family friendship. It's great when you feel that your significant other is interested in your work and achievements. When they support you in difficult moments of life, give advice or simply listen to everything that is sore about your problems.
Step 6
Remember that a strong family is built on trust, mutual respect, caring for each other, mutual understanding and other good qualities. Efforts to build a strong family must be reciprocal. Try to consider your loved one the only one until the very end of your life and always stay together.
