Looking for your soul mate? To make the right choice, you need to understand exactly who you need. Let's consider the most important criteria for starting a family.
Instructions
Step 1
We meet by clothes
First of all, we pay attention to the appearance. Of course, our future companion or companion should seem attractive to us. Although you should not make hasty conclusions - getting to know each other better, we begin to see each other differently. Nice people seem prettier to us, while those with an obnoxious character lose their original shine and gloss.
Step 2
"Communities"
In addition to sexual attraction, two people should have something in common:
- Outlook on life. Life principles should not diverge 100%. If your "white" looks "black" in the eyes of your partner, then it will be difficult for you to agree on anything.
- Interests. Common hobbies bring together and help you have a good time together. Moreover, if both you and your girlfriend collect stamps, then you will not stumble upon a misunderstanding of your favorite pastime.
- Financial and cultural level. Do not forget that after your honeymoon you will have to get out of the paradise hut, and from time to time you will start running into each other's friends. Will you feel at ease driving a Zaporozhets if all your girlfriend's friends have two or three sophisticated foreign cars? The same applies to the intellectual level.
Step 3
Jokes jokes
If a new acquaintance manages to make you laugh, and your jokes do not seem overly vulgar or aggressive to him, this is a good sign. A similar sense of humor and ability to cheer each other up has a positive effect on relationships.
Step 4
Respect comes first!
There are qualities that you can't do without in a good family. Take a closer look at your potential spouse: do you find respect, maturity, responsibility, honesty and flexibility in them? If something from this list is missing, then it can bring you a lot of trouble.
Step 5
Quarreling
Psychologists advise young couples to take a closer look at their first fights. If a compromise was skillfully found even before the grandmother's antique dishes were beaten, and everyone remained with a share of their interests, then in the future such couples will simply find a way out of controversial situations. Do not confuse the absence of conflicts with an unlimited desire to yield to each other in everything. Sooner or later, your plans will intersect.
Step 6
"Your family"
If you have confidently reached the sixth point, it is time to find out about the parents of your "applicant". By creating a family, you are connecting yourself not only with your wife / husband, but also with her / his parents and relatives. If something in your partner's family tree makes you very wary, postpone the wedding and take a good look at each other again.
Step 7
May you live happily ever after
Even if you are perfect for each other, creating a family, you cannot do without that very magical and mysterious feeling called "LOVE". Someone calls it “chemistry”, someone “attraction”, someone “spark”. Most importantly, don't let the villainess love completely cloud your head. Unfortunately, feelings alone are not enough to create a good family.
