Traditionally, men and women play different roles in the family. The wife provides comfort, leads the house and takes care of the children, the husband is responsible for a comfortable existence. And although modern realities are making adjustments to the roles that each of the spouses plays in the family, traditions are still alive. A man's decision to marry is influenced by his willingness to take responsibility.
Instructions
Step 1
Men in Russia still take on social responsibility for the material support of their families. In addition to traditions, this role is due to natural reasons - the purpose of a woman in a family is to give birth to children. The birth of one child often removes a woman from participation in the labor process for three years. If there are two or three children, then the period that she has to spend sitting at home with them can reach 8-10 years. It is clear that one does not really have to rely on a woman's earnings. Therefore, men who have not yet "got on their feet" in the material plane are in no hurry to get married.
Step 2
The impossibility of acquiring their own housing, which is very expensive in our country, deprives men of the desire to start a family in advance. Renting an apartment is also quite expensive, so it is better to live in a civil marriage, because a family is children and a significant material burden. In addition, the lack of prospects for obtaining their own housing develops the infantilism of men who do not see an opportunity for themselves to separate and continue to live with their parents in cramped apartments where you cannot bring your wife.
Step 3
Another reason is the subconscious fear of losing freedom. Family life for a responsible person involves many responsibilities. A man may be deprived of the pleasures he has as a bachelor. If earlier sex was possible only after the wedding, now civil marriage is a natural phenomenon, so there is no point in taking on additional responsibilities and complicating your life.
Step 4
If a man is not sure that he has met his most beloved woman, and he is not afraid of losing her, then, of course, he will not be in a hurry with the wedding. No arguments of reason will prevent a man from marrying his chosen one, without whom he cannot imagine his life. In this case, all of the above reasons cease to be of any importance, he applies all his strength and removes all obstacles.
