It is sometimes difficult for people to understand each other. And if we are talking about people of different sex - even more so. Finding rapport with your loved one is very important for a long and harmonious relationship. If your goal is to better understand your young man, learn the art of communication (this skill will come in handy not only in your personal life). To do this, listen to the following, not very difficult, but effective advice.
Instructions
Step 1
Make sure your partner is in the mood for conversation. Otherwise, your attempts to talk heart to heart will only annoy him.
Step 2
If you find the time to have a conversation, ask questions that he cannot give a short, unambiguous answer. Most likely, already at this stage you will receive a lot of information about your young man. Try to listen and hear.
Step 3
Ask questions that really interest you before you start making joint plans for the future life. Most relationship problems could be avoided if we asked more (and listened carefully to the answers).
Step 4
Give feedback. Make sure you get it right and not the way you would like it to be.
Step 5
Know that a man needs love and reciprocity as much as you do. In our hearts, we are all afraid of being unloved. Consider and respect this need of your chosen one.
Step 6
Don't play games. Deception and manipulation do not contribute to the development of harmonious and reliable relationships, but only temporarily help you achieve certain results in your personal life.
Step 7
Judge a man by how he treats you. Analyze not only his words, but also his actions.
Step 8
To avoid future problems, pay attention to bad signals in the relationship ahead of time. Especially the ones you don't want to notice. By carefully observing the behavior of your chosen one, you can get a lot of information. Do not leave her unattended - do not get into trouble.
Step 9
Do not demand actions from a man that are not inherent in his nature. If this does not suit you, maybe this is the wrong man?
Step 10
Be yourself. Be interesting. Look for a partner who can appreciate the real you. Then mutual understanding will not be long in coming.
