What if the guy with whom you have been together for several years still has not made a marriage proposal? Psychologists advise you to take a closer look at his behavior towards you as objectively as possible.
Instructions
Step 1
Perhaps you have recently begun to notice that you have started making large joint purchases or planning long trips? This means that your man begins a thorough preparation in order to subsequently decide on a more serious step. In this situation, do not go too far, every now and then asking him about what color the wallpaper will be in your common hallway, etc. Try not to force things, and if you show wisdom, a marriage proposal will not be long in coming.
Step 2
Be observant. How does he react when you are invited to weddings by mutual friends? How does it relate to a civil marriage? Does he willingly stay with small children when close people ask him about it? If he perceives someone else's wedding as nothing more than another party, shrugs off any talk about living together and keeps looking at his watch when he fiddles with his nephew, then his plans do not include thoughts of marriage. And if at the wedding of his best friend he shouts "Bitterly!" and at the same time holds you closer to him, often wonders who your baby will look like, then very soon you will go down the aisle with him.
Step 3
Still not sure if he wants to connect with you in the near future? Then ask him about it directly. The wording of the question might be: “Do you think men are really afraid of responsibility in marriage? Why? Be careful: if a guy speaks openly about selfishness, the desire to remain free and not take care of the problems associated with the maintenance of the family, then he does not want marriage.
