Cohabitation with your beloved is an important and responsible step that parents may not approve of. It is better to inform them about the planned changes in advance, without delaying or hiding anything. In this case, the likelihood that they will understand and support you is very high.
Instructions
Step 1
Before you tell your parents the news of a change of place of residence, make sure that they get to know your chosen one well. Let them know that you have strong feelings: invite your loved one to visit, go for walks with him and your parents. They have to trust this person.
Step 2
Let your parents understand that you are already an adult who is responsible for your actions and is able to cope with difficulties: do not waste all the money on the first day of your paycheck, learn to solve minor everyday problems on your own.
Step 3
Do not beat around the bush, immediately get down to the main idea - tell them about your intentions, give good examples from the experience of your friends. Tell them that you are going to live together when you plan to start. Try not to burden them with your problems related to the move: prepare a material base, find housing.
Step 4
Before telling your parents, decide for yourself - do you really want to live together with your chosen one, perhaps the decision to live together is dictated by emotions. You must be confident in your loved one, in your and his intentions.
Step 5
Do not postpone the conversation with your parents, they will still find out that the sooner, the better, if you delay, risk winding yourself up, maybe your parents have nothing against it, and you will be in constant tension. Deep down, all parents dream of marrying their daughter, and civil marriage is a step in the right direction.
Step 6
Convince your boyfriend to talk to your parents when they see his reverent attitude towards you - it will be much easier for them to let you go.
Step 7
Promise your parents that you will visit them regularly, as your leaving home is a huge stress for them, which takes time to overcome.
Step 8
Tell your parents about your plans for the future, they should be aware of. If you are planning to get married in the future, inform about it right away, the parents will more easily transfer the information that you will move out.
