Meeting a partner's sexual needs, even in a loving couple, can be a serious stumbling block. There can be many reasons for this: from complexes and your sexual temperament to views on sex itself. It is possible to overcome these barriers to mutual enjoyment, but this is always a serious job for two.
A high-quality sex life of a couple contributes to the full development of harmonious relationships between partners. Their preferences in sex and temperament may not coincide, provoking betrayal and scandals. It is possible to avoid quarrels on this basis, as well as to satisfy the sexual needs of a partner, even with different views on sex and different intimate activities.
Before moving on to the process itself, it is important to understand what the sexual needs of your man or your woman are. The easiest and most logical way to find out about them is to directly ask your partner about it. He may not always open up to you to the end, having told all desires. To do this, you need to create a special confidential atmosphere, perhaps talk about some of your fantasies, in order to spur your partner to a frank conversation. The whole conversation should go in the most correct form, since the topic is very sensitive.
Sometimes it is difficult for a partner to open up and talk about this topic, for example, if he considers his fantasies shameful. Here erotic magazines or films will help you. Invite your partner to watch them together and show what he likes. Observe at this moment the reactions of a loved one - they can also tell you a lot.
Having learned all the addictions and fantasies of your partner, you can begin to satisfy his sexual needs. Weasels and the creation of a calm environment in which no one will bother you will help to tune it in the right way. If your partner's sexual addictions involve some kind of games or additional paraphernalia, visit an intimate goods store and prepare everything you need in advance. Go to the store with your partner. This option will be even better - it will help you get a little closer and tune in the right way.
Sometimes it is in you that it is not possible to fully realize your partner's sexual desires. Some of the fantasies for you may be unacceptable or shameful, and your less interest in sex as such may be to blame. This can be fixed too. In a frank conversation with your partner, you should definitely explain your desires at the moment of intimacy or honestly say about their absence. You can offer your partner joint play and affection that will help you discover your own sensuality.
Very often this factor plays a big role. Found erogenous points, paraphernalia in the form of music, atmosphere and smells, help to relax and get very excited. Being excited, neither you nor your beloved partner will think about complexes and the acceptability of his fantasies for you. Give yourself up to this feeling completely, while not forgetting about the addictions of your partner.
It is likely that you will not succeed right away. By being supportive, caring, and treating each other with understanding and respect, you can bring harmony to your sexual relationship.
