Relationship problems are quite common. And if there is no way out of this situation, then the girl can part with the guy and start looking for a more suitable person. It is best to do this as carefully as possible to avoid possible conflicts.
Instructions
Step 1
Consider if you really want to break up with your boyfriend and, if so, why. Imagine in your mind everything that you went through with him, remember in what negative situations you got. Also, think about the negative qualities of the guy that you don't like.
Step 2
Tune in to the fact that in the near future you will break up. Often, a spontaneous breakup can make you feel rushed and escalate into long-term depression. Make sure that the guy does not cause you anything but negativity, and that you are ready to be alone for a while and start looking for a new object for a relationship.
Step 3
Prepare for a serious conversation with your boyfriend. Better to build a plan and jot down your lines on paper. Remember to make your case as serious as possible so that the guy doesn't decide that you just want to pause the relationship, but actually break it off forever.
Step 4
Choose a place for a serious conversation. It is best not to meet in places that make you fond of memories, otherwise feelings can confuse you. Before the meeting, call the guy and tell him that you want to talk to him seriously, that this is not another date. Perhaps, having heard this, the guy himself will guess what you want to tell him, and will be mentally prepared.
Step 5
Host a meeting. Behave naturally, ask how the guy is doing. You should not switch to swearing and start a scandal; it is best to end the relationship peacefully. Tell your boyfriend politely that you don't want to date him anymore, tell the reasons why you do this, remembering all the negative things that you had to go through. If he reacts to this calmly, offer to remain friends, this will help avoid bickering in the future. Keep your distance. Speak as convincingly as possible so that the guy does not start trying to persuade you to come back. Say that the conversation is over, and immediately go in your direction.
