If a guy and a girl really love each other, this can only be envied in a good way. But, unfortunately, it often happens that love does not stand the test of time. In the event that one of the partners sees and understands that their relationship has reached an impasse, and it is unlikely that it will be possible to revive the old love, it would be wiser to part in an amicable way.
Instructions
Step 1
If you have been dating a guy for a short time, this issue can be solved quite simply. Refuse to meet several times in a row. As a rule, the guy "gets" that you do not want to develop your relationship, and everything will end without unnecessary emotions and suffering. If he does not draw conclusions, just calmly and politely tell him on the phone that he is a good person, and you have nothing against him, but you came to the conclusion that it is better for you to leave.
Step 2
Has your romance been going on for a long time? It is necessary to thoroughly prepare for the breakdown of relations. First of all, try to honestly and frankly answer to yourself the question: do you really want a break, will it really be easier for you if this guy disappears from your life? If the answer is yes, do not hesitate to part. Don't postpone an unpleasant conversation until next Monday or the next month.
Step 3
Nevertheless, try to prepare your boyfriend so that the news of the breakup does not come as a complete surprise to him. Meet with him less often, do not call, do not send messages, avoid, under any pretext, tactile contacts (especially intimate intimacy). The guy will probably understand that you do not have the same feelings for him. Then, even if he is offended and angry, it will be psychologically easier for him to hear the news of the breakup.
Step 4
Do not blame the guy, do not scold, do not list his mistakes and shortcomings. On the contrary, assure you that you will keep a good memory of both him and your novel.
Step 5
If the guy starts to reproach you, blame, do not make excuses and do not go over to the counterattack. Just say: "I understand that you are very upset, but my decision is final, let's part in an amicable way."
Step 6
In the event that a young man begins to press on pity, describing how bad it will be for him without you, do not give in. Tell him that he will definitely find a good girl who will make him happy.
Step 7
The best option is if the guy takes the news of the upcoming breakup with undisguised relief. This means that he himself had already thought about parting, but did not dare to be the first to start this conversation.
