When a romantic relationship begins to emerge between a girl and a guy, they can talk for hours, trying to get to know each other as best as possible. However, deep down in her soul, every girl feels that there are topics in a conversation with her beloved that it is better not to touch on. What are these topics?
Despite the fact that it is impossible to try to bring all relations between men and women under one denominator, there are still a number of regularities. For example, often unfamiliar men of different ages and different social status consider the same things unacceptable. What is better not to tell a guy if you, of course, do not want to change his attitude towards you for the worse?
Sometimes chewing is better than talking, or what is better for a guy not to know about?
Some girls think that, being in a relationship, absolutely nothing needs to be hidden from their chosen one, because it is even somehow dishonest towards him. In fact, some of the young man's things are completely irrelevant. For example, he does not need to know how much time, effort and finances his beloved spends on always and everywhere being the most beautiful. No, he, of course, knows about the existence of an epilator, pumice stone for legs and an eerie color of face masks, but he has absolutely no need to listen to about this, or even more so, to watch the process of putting himself in order. In general, you do not need to tire your loved one with chatter about dresses, shoes, hairstyles and fashion boutiques - believe me, he will appreciate it.
In no case should you constantly tell your man how dear he is to you and how afraid you are of losing him. Of course, at first he will be flattered to hear this, but rather quickly he will get fed up with this information, and the manifestations of your jealousy will only annoy him. A girl who is never abandoned by men does not cling to her beloved and knows what to do with herself at the moment when he is not around.
Absolute taboos when talking to a guy
You don't need to talk to him about your ex-boyfriends, even if he asks questions himself. Answer them evasively and carefully transfer the conversation to another topic, because you do not know when and in what context he can recall such careless frankness in the story of the relationship that existed before him. In no case do not speak badly about your ex, because if you met them, then you had something in common. In general, avoid slandering anyone.
Never speak negatively about those who are dear to your loved one. An absolute taboo is his mother; about this person you need to say either only the best, or nothing at all.
Never tell your man that you have cheated on your ex. The psychology of a man is arranged in such a way that he automatically begins to subconsciously admit the possibility that you will cheat on him. Will he want to calmly wait for this moment and date a windy girl? Hardly. Therefore, avoid talking about all situations in the past that do not adorn you.
