The problem of their own housing, facing young spouses, forces them to agree to live with their parents. At the same time, both couples are aware of possible problems.
Instructions
Step 1
At the beginning of your cohabitation, it is better to agree among themselves on the rules. This can include common areas, cleaning, cooking, behavior in general. Do not forget that you are in the territory of parents who have already established a certain rhythm of life. For them, as people of age, it will be difficult to make changes in their way of life. Having agreed in an amicable way, try not to break the accepted rules. This will help you avoid many problems.
Step 2
It will also be difficult for your other half to get along with your parents. In fact, they are strangers to your spouse. How you position yourself will affect their relationship. You don’t have to be “mama's boy” or “mother’s daughter” who do whatever the parents say. After all, you already have your own family and you are responsible for the decisions you make.
Step 3
In the event of a disputable situation, gently but firmly explain your position to your parents, provide arguments. Parents will understand that you can solve the problem yourself, and you will also assert yourself in the eyes of your spouse.
Step 4
You also need to immediately find out all the questions about the rent (utility bills). Better to pay your own share. This way you will once again prove your independence and be able to avoid future claims from your parents.
Step 5
If possible, strive to purchase (rent) a separate living space. Not every spouse will be able to live with other people's parents for a long time. Over time, problems that arise can negatively affect your relationship.
