As they say, most often we quarrel with the people who are closest and dearest to us. But is there any point in these quarrels? As a rule, only they know the real us, it was they who saw us different, but did not stop loving and accepting who we are. That is why they are considered close, because we trust them so much that we were allowed to get to know us so closely.
When parents quarrel, their children suffer, when lovers quarrel, their relationship is threatened. In any quarrel, you have to sacrifice something. And it's good if the person is important, and not pride, because of which many cannot apologize. There are many people who cannot overstep their principles and forgive the offense of a really important person.
As a result, they are left alone, alone with their principles. It is impossible to say with certainty what motivates such people, a feeling of resentment, or perhaps an inability to treat others with understanding? Of course, principles are very important, but they do not always have to guide our actions. Better to sacrifice them than human. Having checked this once, you can be sure if you did the right thing.
If so, then the reward will not be long in coming and your loved one will surround you with even more care in gratitude for your forgiveness. And if not, and he will repeat his mistakes again, then you will understand what kind of person is next to you.
Many people know about this, but stubbornly continue to close in themselves and not give a second chance to their loved ones. Sometimes it is worth thinking not only about yourself, but also about your chosen one. Understand why he did this, and most importantly, talk to him about it. Many troubles are due to the fact that people "do not know how to talk" with each other, but you need to be able to establish conflicts in this way.
