Few men do not think about how to communicate with a girl, what topics are better to discuss with her and what to do if an awkward silence suddenly hangs. There are many theories on this subject, both male and female. For example, you invited a girl to a romantic dinner, or there was another situation in which you were alone. And you understand that you ought to say something, and what exactly is not clear. Unfortunately, this is not taught at school, and at home, too. Although earlier noble children were taught etiquette, and they even had to pass an exam on it.
Instructions
Step 1
First, think about what you already know about this girl. If you have known her for a long time, then the situation is simplified. Just think about what interests her in life and ask her opinion about it. Questions are the most ideal way to get a lot of information, including what not to do and what can be expected of you. Just do not immediately go to her with questions about her personal life.
Step 2
You can give out any information for the seed yourself. And perhaps this information will interest her, and she herself will continue the conversation.
Step 3
If nothing comes to mind at all, then perhaps something in the girl's appearance can suggest her area of interest. For example, in her hands, some kind of book, hands peeking out of a backpack or a dog in her arms.
Step 4
The easiest way to strike up a conversation is to simply sort through the "eternal" topics. For example, what kind of music, literature, sports she likes or dislikes and why; what are the favorite and least favorite places in the city; where he works or studies; Pets; philosophical questions. But remember that your questions should be structured in such a way that it does not feel like an interrogation, but like a casual conversation.
Step 5
If, after a long conversation on a topic, you feel that you have thoroughly discussed it (at this moment there is usually an awkward pause), smoothly move the conversation to another topic.
Step 6
Men believe that since girls love with their ears, then you need to hang on them as many compliments as possible, but this is not the most suitable girl. This attitude makes girls feel uncomfortable. Give a couple of interesting compliments in the middle of the conversation - that's enough.
Step 7
Remember that a man's reasoning and thoughts are subject to logic, and a woman's thoughts are subject to emotions. Whichever topic you choose for a conversation with a girl, the most important thing is the emotional details. Talk more about your impressions and feelings. This will help her to see in you a person who is attentive and sensual.
