There can be an awkward pause after the standard greeting and asking about business. It's good if the guy himself starts a dialogue and proposes a topic for conversation. But even if this does not happen, the initiative can be taken into our own hands.
Instructions
Step 1
Everything that surrounds you can become a topic for conversation - weather, birds, people, transport. Do not be afraid to seem stupid and naive - you will defuse the situation with a casual remark about the weather, and your "stupidity" will probably soon be forgotten. During the forced breaks, the guy may well experience the same embarrassment as you.
Step 2
Show interest in the other person's personality and hobbies. Ask the guy what he likes to do, what kind of music he likes to listen to, what books to read and what movies to watch. You can also touch on the topic of sports. Prepare for the dialogue in advance to be able to answer the counter questions of the same kind. Then you can discuss specific books, musical directions, groups, interesting films, etc. Listen carefully to the guy, do not interrupt, ask leading and clarifying questions.
Step 3
Do not rush with frank questions - you can find out if he already had girls after. Do not meddle in a person's soul, trying to immediately find out what he is dreaming of: this is very personal, from such a guy he can just get confused. Try to choose neutral topics, keep a distance that is comfortable for you.
Step 4
Go to the cinema, theater, exhibition with you. After the session, you can discuss what you saw. Be interested, first of all, in his opinion, and only after that express yours.
Step 5
When talking to a guy, refer to him by name. Surely he will be pleased to hear his name from your lips. Especially if it is complemented by a flattering compliment.
Step 6
Sometimes the conversation is not needed. For example, if you already know each other well and you have a romantic date, you can just keep quiet, looking into each other's eyes. Do not be afraid of "sign language": take the guy by the hand, kiss on the cheek, gently whisper nonsense in your ear. This will bring you closer and liberate. Talking about dreams in such an environment is already quite appropriate.
