Sometimes a woman's desire to have a child does not arouse enthusiasm in response from her husband. He can refer to unpreparedness - moral or financial. So how can you convince your beloved that he has already "matured" to the role of a father?
Instructions
Step 1
Do not put pressure on a man morally, do not have boring hour-long conversations with him about how great it is to have children. And even more so, do not throw tantrums and do not indulge in blackmail. Such methods will not lead to a positive result, but you can cause dislike in your man.
Step 2
Praise your husband and appreciate his care and attention. Let your beloved sometimes hear the following phrases from you: "You will make a wonderful father" or "You are so attentive, I can imagine what kind of dad you will be." Say these words with sincerity and admiration. Just do not overdo it, if you repeat them too often, they will become habitual and will simply fly past your spouse's ears.
Step 3
Visit friends and family with young children with your husband. Communication with strangers of the baby, over time, will awaken the sleeping parental instincts. Therefore, it is likely that after the next trip to visit the husband himself will talk to you about procreation.
Step 4
Contact the parents of your beloved, tell them about your desire to become a mother. It is possible that they have long dreamed of grandchildren. If so, ask them to talk to their son about wanting to be a grandparent. After all, it is possible that he subconsciously awaits approval from his parents. And after talking with them, he will seriously think that it is time to become a father.
Step 5
Learn to wait, because it may be so - your man himself wants a child, but at this time he does not feel confident. The reason for this may be material difficulties or he decided to achieve a career growth and at this stage pushes back paternity. In any case, try to get into his position and let him know that together you will solve the most difficult problems. So you will once again convince your spouse that he was not mistaken in choosing his half and the mother of his future toddlers.
